The Panikhida

The Memorial Service

The Church's prayer for a Christian who has fallen asleep in the Lord.

Structure of the Panikhida

The Memorial Service
of the Orthodox Church

The Church's prayer for a Christian who has fallen asleep in the Lord

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The Panikhida is the memorial service of the Orthodox Church, offered for a Christian who has fallen asleep in the Lord. It is a brief service, usually about half an hour, and it may be served in church, at a funeral home, at the graveside, or in the home of the departed. The Church does not leave her children at death; she goes on praying for them by name, and this service is the form that prayer takes.

A Panikhida is customarily served on the third, ninth, and fortieth days after death, on the anniversary of death, and on the Soul Saturdays appointed through the year, when the whole parish prays together for all its departed. It is also served on the eve of a funeral.

The form is ancient. The Apostolic Constitutions, a church order compiled about the year 380, already direct that the departed be remembered on the third, ninth, and fortieth days with psalms and prayers. The service itself is a condensed form of the funeral Matins, and it closes as memorials have closed for centuries, with the singing of Memory Eternal.

The hymns of the service do not pretend that grief is not real. They set grief inside the Resurrection. The same service that says all we mortals return to the earth answers itself at once with the song the Church sings beside every grave: Alleluia.

The All-Night Watch

The word Panikhida comes from the Greek pannychis, an all-night watch. The first Christians kept vigil through the night at the tombs of the martyrs, and prayer beside the dead is among the oldest recorded practices of the Church.

Sixteen Movements of Prayer

The Order of the
Panikhida

From the opening blessing to Memory Eternal, one unbroken intercession
I

The Opening Prayers

The common doorway into all prayer

The priest begins, "Blessed is our God," and the people take up the prayers that open nearly every Orthodox service: the Trisagion, "Holy God, Holy Mighty, Holy Immortal," and the Lord's Prayer. Grief is not given a special language. It is placed inside the Church's ordinary prayer, and the words Holy Immortal confess the deathless God before the fact of death.

All stand for the whole of the service. The faithful gather at the left side of the church, to pray before the icon of the Crucifixion. The priest begins, the faithful standing with lighted candles.
Priest Blessed is our God always, now and ever and unto ages of ages.
People Amen. Holy God, Holy Mighty, Holy Immortal, have mercy on us.Sung 3x
Reader

Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.

O Most Holy Trinity, have mercy on us. O Lord, cleanse us from our sins. O Master, pardon our transgressions. O Holy One, visit and heal our infirmities, for Thy Name’s sake.

Lord, have mercy. 3x

Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy Name; Thy Kingdom come; Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Priest For Thine is the Kingdom, and the power, and the glory: of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages.
Reader Amen. Lord, have mercy. 12x
Reader Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.
Holy Immortal

Grief is not given a special language. It is placed inside the Church's ordinary prayer, and the words Holy Immortal confess the deathless God before the fact of death.

II

Psalm 90

Refuge under the wings of the Almighty

The reader takes up Psalm 90: "He that dwelleth in the help of the Most High." Its images are all shelter: wings, a shield, angels given charge, deliverance from the terror by night. The Church reads it over her departed to entrust them to the protection that continues where ours has ended, and the psalm closes in God's own voice: "I will show him My salvation."

Reader Come, let us worship God our King. Come, let us worship and fall down before Christ, our King and our God. Come, let us worship and fall down before Christ Himself, our King and our God.

He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High
shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.
I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress;
my God, in Him I will trust.”

Surely He shall deliver you from the snare of the fowler
and from the perilous pestilence.
He shall cover you with His feathers,
and under His wings you shall take refuge;
His truth shall be your shield and buckler.

You shall not be afraid of the terror by night,
nor of the arrow that flies by day,
Nor of the pestilence that walks in darkness,
nor of the destruction that lays waste at noonday.

A thousand may fall at your side,
and ten thousand at your right hand;
but it shall not come near you.
Only with your eyes shall you look,
and see the reward of the wicked.

Because you have made the Lord, who is my refuge,
even the Most High, your habitation,
No evil shall befall you,
nor shall any plague come near your dwelling;

For He shall give His angels charge over you,
to keep you in all your ways.
They shall bear you up in their hands,
lest you dash your foot against a stone.
You shall tread upon the lion and the cobra,
the young lion and the serpent you shall trample under foot.

“Because he has set his love upon Me,
therefore I will deliver him;
I will set him on high, because he has known My name.
He shall call upon Me, and I will answer him;
I will be with him in trouble;
I will deliver him and honor him.
With long life I will satisfy him,
and show him My salvation.”

Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit,
now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia! Glory to Thee, O God. 3x

God's Own Voice

The psalm ends with God Himself speaking: "He shall call upon Me, and I will answer him... and show him My salvation." The Church reads that promise over her departed.

III

The Great Litany

The Church's full intercession, turned toward one soul

The litany that opens the Divine Liturgy opens here as well: "In peace, let us pray to the Lord." But every petition after the first is for the departed: for their repose, for the pardon of every transgression, voluntary and involuntary, for "a place of brightness, a place of refreshment, a place of rest." The daily needs of the living give way, for this hour, to the need of one soul.

Answer each petition with the choir: Lord, have mercy.
Priest In peace let us pray to the Lord.
People Lord, have mercy.
Priest For the peace from above, and for the salvation of our souls, let us pray to the Lord.
Priest For the remission of the sins of him (her) who hath (those who have) departed this life in blessed memory, let us pray to the Lord.
Priest For the ever-memorable servant(s) of God, ; for his (her, their) repose, tranquillity, and blessed memory, let us pray to the Lord.
Priest That He will pardon him (her, them) every transgression, whether voluntary or involuntary, let us pray to the Lord.
Priest That he (she, they) may stand uncondemned before the dread throne of the Lord of glory, let us pray to the Lord.
Priest For the weeping and the grieving, who are looking for the consolation of Christ, let us pray to the Lord.
Priest That He will release him (her, them) from all sickness, sorrow, and sighing, and make him (her, them) glad where the light of God’s countenance shall visit, let us pray to the Lord.
Priest That the Lord our God will establish his (her, their) soul(s) in a place of brightness, a place of refreshment, a place of rest, where all the righteous dwell, let us pray to the Lord.
Priest That he (she, they) may be numbered with those in the bosom of Abraham, and Isaac, and Jacob, let us pray to the Lord.
Priest For our deliverance from all tribulation, wrath, danger, and necessity, let us pray to the Lord.
Priest Help us, save us, have mercy on us, and keep us, O God, by Thy grace.
The people answer each of the petitions above: Lord, have mercy.
Priest Having implored for him (her, them) the mercies of God, the kingdom of heaven, and remission of sins, let us commend ourselves, and each other, and all our life unto Christ our God.
People To Thee, O Lord.
Priest For Thou art the Resurrection, and the Life, and the Repose of Thy servant(s), , who is (are) fallen asleep, O Christ our God, and unto Thee do we ascribe glory, together with Thy Father, who is from everlasting, and Thine all-holy, and good, and life-creating Spirit: now, and ever, and unto ages of ages.
People Amen.
The Oldest Response in Worship

Lord, have mercy, in Greek Kyrie, eleison, is the people's oldest recorded answer in Christian worship: church orders of the fourth century already show a deacon chanting petitions and the congregation responding with these words.

IV

The Alleluia

Praise sung at the edge of the grave

Where Matins would sing the festal "God is the Lord," the memorial service sings Alleluia, with verses: "Blessed are they whom Thou hast chosen and taken, O Lord." The same substitution marks the weekdays of Great Lent. Both point away from present festivity toward the age to come, and the Church's first sung word over death is praise.

Priest The Alleluia in the 8th Tone. Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia.
Priest VerseBlessed are they whom Thou hast chosen and taken, O Lord.
People Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia.
Priest VerseTheir memory is from generation to generation.
People Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia.
Priest VerseTheir souls shall dwell with the blessed.
People Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia.
Alleluia Beside the Grave

The Alleluia is not an interruption of grief but the Church's answer to it. The same word of praise that rings at Pascha is sung beside every grave, because Christ has trampled down death by death.

V

The Troparion

Death held within God's wise providence

The choir sings, "Thou only Creator Who, with wisdom profound, mercifully orderest all things." The hymn echoes St. Paul: "O the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God" (Romans 11:33). Nothing, not even this death, falls outside God's loving ordering of the world, and the plea for rest stands not on the merits of the departed but on their hope in the One who fashioned them.

Tone 8. The choir sings.
Choir Thou only Creator Who, with wisdom profound, mercifully orderest all things, and givest unto all that which is useful: give rest, O Lord, to the soul(s) of Thy servant(s) who hath (have) fallen asleep, for he (she, they) hath (have) placed his (her, their) trust in Thee, our Maker and Fashioner, and our God.
Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen. The choir concludes with the hymn to the Theotokos.
Choir We have thee as a wall and a haven, and an intercessor well-pleasing unto God, whom thou hast borne, O Virgin Birthgiver of God, the salvation of the faithful.
Hope, Not Merit

The plea for rest stands not on the merits of the departed but on their hope in the One who fashioned them: "our Maker and Fashioner, and our God."

VI

The Evlogitaria

The lost sheep called home to Paradise

Between refrains of Psalm 118, "Blessed art Thou, O Lord, teach me Thy statutes," the choir sings the hymns of the departed: "The choir of the saints have found the fountain of life," and "I am the image of Thine ineffable glory, though I bear the brands of transgressions." Sunday Matins sings a twin set of these hymns for the Resurrection. The funeral set is their mirror, asking that Pascha reach this soul.

The Requiem Hymns, Tone 5. The refrain, Blessed art Thou, O Lord, opens the hymns and returns after each verse. The choir sings the hymns; open the music above to follow every verse.
Choir Blessed art Thou, O Lord; teach me Thy statutes.
If desired, the following verses are read, the refrain sung by all after each.
Reader Ye holy Martyrs, who preached the Lamb of God, and like unto lambs were slain, and are translated into life unfading and everlasting: fervently beseech ye Him to grant us remission of our sins.
The refrain is sung.
Reader Ye who have trod the narrow way of grief; all ye who, in life, have taken upon you the Cross as a yoke, and followed Me by faith: draw near, enjoy ye the honors and celestial crowns I have prepared for you.
The refrain is sung.
Reader I am the image of Thine ineffable glory, though I bear the brands of transgressions: pity Thy creature, O Master, and purify me by Thy loving-kindness; grant unto me my desired fatherland, making me again a citizen of Paradise.
The refrain is sung.
Reader O Thou who of old didst form me from nothingness, and honored me with Thine image divine, but by the transgression of Thy commandment hast returned me again unto the earth from which I was taken: restore Thou me to that image, and to my former beauty.
The refrain is sung. The choir concludes the hymns with the Alleluia.
The Departed Speak in These Hymns

The Evlogitaria are written in the first person: "I am a lost sheep: call me, O Savior." The Church lends her voice to the one who has died, and the departed, through the choir, makes one last confession of hope.

VII

The Little Litany

The returning heartbeat of intercession

"Again and again, in peace let us pray to the Lord." The little litany returns throughout the service, after the Evlogitaria and between the odes of the canon, always with the same two petitions: forgiveness of every transgression, and a place where the righteous repose. The service does not move past intercession; it keeps returning to it.

The people answer each petition as printed below.
Priest Again, yet again, in peace let us pray to the Lord.
People Lord, have mercy.
Priest Furthermore, we pray for the repose of the soul(s) of the servant(s) of God, , departed this life: and that he (she, they) may be pardoned all his (her, their) sins, both voluntary and involuntary.
People Lord, have mercy.
Priest That the Lord God will establish his (her, their) soul(s) where the just repose.
People Lord, have mercy.
Priest The mercies of God, the kingdom of heaven, and the remission of his (her, their) sins, let us entreat of Christ, our King Immortal, and our God.
People Grant it, O Lord.
Priest Let us pray to the Lord.
People Lord, have mercy.
Priest For Thou art the Resurrection, and the Life, and the Repose of Thy servant(s), , who is (are) fallen asleep, O Christ our God, and unto Thee do we ascribe glory, together with Thy Father, who is from everlasting, and Thine all-holy, and good, and life-creating Spirit: now, and ever, and unto ages of ages.
People Amen.
Again and Again

The little litany returns between the odes of the canon, always with the same two petitions: forgiveness of every transgression, and a place where the righteous repose.

VIII

Give Rest with the Just

A moment of rest, a prayer for rest

This short hymn is a sedalen, literally a "sitting hymn," sung at the point in Matins where the faithful were permitted to sit after long psalmody. It prays that God settle His servants in His courts, "according as it is written," and the written word it reaches for is the Alleluia's own psalm: "Blessed is he whom Thou hast chosen and taken; he shall dwell in Thy courts."

The Sessional Hymn, Tone 5. The choir sings.
Choir Give rest with the just, O our Savior, to Thy servant(s), and settle him (her, them) in Thy courts, according as it is written; overlooking, as Thou art good, his (her, their) transgressions, whether voluntary or involuntary, and all things done in knowledge or in ignorance, O Thou who lovest mankind.
According As It Is Written

The hymn quotes the psalm the service has already sung: "Blessed is he whom Thou hast chosen and taken; he shall dwell in Thy courts."

IX

Psalm 50

Mercy is the ground of every petition

David's psalm of repentance, "Have mercy on me, O God," is the most often prayed psalm in Orthodox worship, and it stands here before the canon. Before the Church dares her longest intercession for the departed, she confesses that mercy, not merit, is the ground on which anyone, living or dead, stands before God.

Have mercy upon me, O God,
according to Thy lovingkindness;
According to the multitude of Thy tender mercies,
blot out my transgressions.

Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity,
and cleanse me from my sin.
For I acknowledge my transgressions,
and my sin is ever before me.
Against Thee, Thee only, have I sinned,
and done this evil in Thy sight,
That Thou mayest be found just when Thou speakest,
and blameless when Thou judgest.

Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity,
and in sin did my mother conceive me.
Behold, Thou desirest truth in the inward parts,
and in the hidden part Thou shalt make me to know wisdom.

Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean;
wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.
Make me to hear joy and gladness,
that the bones which Thou hast broken may rejoice.

Hide Thy face from my sins,
and blot out all my iniquities.
Create in me a clean heart, O God,
and renew a steadfast spirit within me.

Cast me not away from Thy presence,
and take not Thy Holy Spirit from me.
Restore unto me the joy of Thy salvation,
and uphold me with Thy generous Spirit.
Then will I teach transgressors Thy ways,
and sinners shall be converted unto Thee.

Deliver me from bloodguiltiness, O God,
Thou God of my salvation,
and my tongue shall sing aloud of Thy righteousness.
O Lord, open Thou my lips,
and my mouth shall show forth Thy praise.
For Thou desirest not sacrifice, else would I give it;
Thou delightest not in burnt offering.
The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit;
a broken and a contrite heart, O God, Thou wilt not despise.

Do good in Thy good pleasure unto Zion;
build Thou the walls of Jerusalem.
Then shalt Thou be pleased with the sacrifices of righteousness,
with burnt offering and whole burnt offering;
Then shall they offer bulls upon Thine altar.

Before the Canon

Before the Church dares her longest intercession for the departed, she confesses that mercy, not merit, is the ground on which anyone, living or dead, stands before God.

X

The Canon

The Church sings the departed toward rest

A canon is a chain of sung poetry built on the great songs of Scripture, and the irmos that opens each ode ties it to its biblical song. The Panikhida takes the canon for the departed in a shortened form, the composition of St. Theophanes the Branded, with one refrain returning throughout: "Give rest, O Lord, to the souls of Thy servants."

Ode One

Irmos of the First Ode

The choir sings the irmos

After the irmos, the priest intones the verses, and the people answer with the refrains below.

The Refrains

The Refrains of the Canon

Sung after each verse, through every ode
Priest Give rest, O Lord, to the soul(s) of Thy servant(s) who is (are) fallen asleep.
The people sing the refrain.
Priest Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
The people sing the response. The verse and the Glory, with their responses, are repeated three times.
Ode Three

Irmos of the Third Ode

The verses and refrains return as before
Ode Six

Irmos of the Sixth Ode

The verses and refrains return as before
Sung Poetry

A canon is a chain of sung poetry built on the great songs of Scripture. The irmos that opens each ode ties it to its biblical song.

XI

Kontakion and Ikos

The Church's best-known funeral hymn

"With the saints give rest, O Christ, where sickness and sorrow are no more, neither sighing, but life everlasting." These lines are the surviving head of an ancient kontakion, a sung sermon, and they are heard at every Orthodox funeral and memorial. The Ikos answers with Genesis itself, "dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return," and then turns even that sentence into a song: Alleluia.

The clergy cense during the Kontakion. It is customary to bow the head as the censer is swung toward the people. Tone 8. The choir sings.
Choir With the saints give rest, O Christ, to the soul(s) of Thy servant(s), where sickness and sorrow are no more, neither sighing, but life everlasting.
Choir Thou only art immortal, who hast created and fashioned man. For out of the earth were we mortals made, and unto the same earth shall we return again, as Thou didst command when Thou madest me, saying unto me: For dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return. Whither we mortals all shall go, making our funeral dirge the song: Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia.
Ode Nine

Irmos of the Ninth Ode

The canon concludes

The refrains are sung once more, and the choir concludes the canon with the irmos of the ninth ode, the ode of the Mother of God.

A Melody the World Knows

The melody of "With the saints give rest" has traveled far beyond Orthodox walls: it was sung at the funerals of Sir Winston Churchill, Prince Philip, and Queen Elizabeth II.

XII

The Trisagion Prayers

The beginning returns as the ending

Near the end, the service returns to its own beginning: "Holy God," the prayers to the Trinity, the Lord's Prayer. Everything that follows, from these prayers to Memory Eternal, is also served by itself at the graveside, where it is called simply the Trisagion. The longest memorial and the shortest end the same way.

Reader

Holy God, Holy Mighty, Holy Immortal, have mercy on us. 3x

Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.

O Most Holy Trinity, have mercy on us. O Lord, cleanse us from our sins. O Master, pardon our transgressions. O Holy One, visit and heal our infirmities, for Thy Name’s sake.

Lord, have mercy. 3x

Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy Name; Thy Kingdom come; Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Priest For Thine is the Kingdom, and the power, and the glory: of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages.
People Amen.
The Hymn a City Learned

Tradition holds that during an earthquake in Constantinople a boy was caught up and heard the angels singing, Holy God, Holy Mighty, Holy Immortal; the people took up the hymn, and the shaking ceased. The assembled bishops sang the Trisagion at the Council of Chalcedon in the year 451.

XIII

With the Souls
of the Righteous

Four hymns that settle the soul

Four brief hymns ask one thing from four sides: "With the souls of the righteous departed, give rest, O Savior, to the soul of Thy servant." They pass from the single soul to the company of the saints, to Christ who descended into hades and loosed the chains of the captives, and last to the Mother of God, asked to intercede. The whole service is in them in miniature.

The Troparia of Repose. The choir sings.
Choir With the souls of the righteous departed, give rest, O Savior, to the soul(s) of Thy servant(s), preserving it (them) unto the life of blessedness which is with Thee, O Thou who lovest mankind.
Choir In the place of Thy rest, O Lord, where all Thy Saints repose, give rest, also, to the soul(s) of Thy servant(s); for Thou only lovest mankind.
Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
Choir Thou art our God, who descended into hell, and loosed the bonds of those who were there; Thyself give rest, also, to the soul(s) of Thy servant(s).
Now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.
Choir O Virgin, alone pure and immaculate, who without seed didst bring forth God: pray thou that his (her, their) soul(s) may be saved.
The Saturdays of the Souls

On the Great and Holy Sabbath, Christ rested in the tomb, and so Saturday became the Church's weekly day of prayer for all who rest in Him. Several Saturdays each year are kept as Soul Saturdays.

XIV

The Litany
for the Departed

The ancient heart of the whole service

The priest asks rest for the departed by name, and prays the prayer the whole service has been circling: "O God of spirits and of all flesh, Who hast trampled down death." The address is Moses' own (Numbers 16:22), and the exclamation is Christ's word at the tomb of Lazarus: "For Thou art the Resurrection, and the Life."

The departed are now prayed for by name. Add the names of your own departed quietly in your heart. The people answer each petition as printed below.
Priest Have mercy on us, O God, according to Thy great mercy, we beseech Thee, hearken and have mercy.
People Lord, have mercy. 3x
Priest Again we pray for the repose of the soul(s) of the servant(s) of God, , departed this life: and that he (she, they) may be pardoned all his (her, their) sins, both voluntary and involuntary.
People Lord, have mercy. 3x
Priest That the Lord God will establish his (her, their) soul(s) where the just repose.
People Lord, have mercy. 3x
Priest The mercies of God, the kingdom of heaven, and the remission of his (her, their) sins, let us entreat of Christ, our King Immortal, and our God.
People Grant it, O Lord.
Priest Let us pray to the Lord.
People Lord, have mercy.
Priest

O God of spirits, and of all flesh, Who hast trampled down Death, and overthrown the Devil, and given life unto Thy world: do Thou, the same Lord, give rest to the soul(s) of Thy departed servant(s), , in a place of brightness, a place of refreshment, a place of repose, where all sickness, sorrow, and sighing have fled away. Pardon every transgression which he (she, they) hath committed, whether by word, or deed, or thought.

For Thou art a good God, and lovest mankind; because there is no man who lives and sins not; for Thou only art without sin, and Thy righteousness is to all eternity, and Thy Word is true.

Priest For Thou art the Resurrection, and the Life, and the Repose of Thy servant(s), , who is (are) fallen asleep, O Christ our God, and unto Thee do we ascribe glory, together with Thy Father, who is from everlasting, and Thine all-holy, and good, and life-creating Spirit: now, and ever, and unto ages of ages.
People Amen.
The Oldest Prayer in the Service

The prayer "O God of spirits and of all flesh" stands in the oldest surviving Byzantine service book, the Barberini Euchologion of the 700s, and on a papyrus written about the year 600. A mourner praying it tonight prays in the company of fourteen centuries.

XV

The Dismissal

Christ risen receives His servant by name

Even at a memorial the dismissal begins, "May Christ our true God, Who rose from the dead." The Church will not speak of death without first naming the Resurrection. The departed are commemorated by name, and the prayer asks that their souls be established in the mansions of the righteous.

Bow as the priest gives the final blessing.
Priest Wisdom! Most Holy Theotokos, save us!
Choir More honorable than the Cherubim, and more glorious beyond compare than the Seraphim, who without corruption gavest birth to God the Word, the very Theotokos, thee do we magnify.
Priest Glory to Thee, O Christ our God; and our sure hope, glory to Thee.
Choir Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen. Lord, have mercy. 3x Father, bless.
Priest May He who has dominion over both the living and the dead, who arose from the dead, Christ our true God, through the prayers of His all-pure Mother; of the holy, glorious, and all-laudable Apostles; of our holy and God-bearing Fathers; and of all the Saints; establish the soul(s) of His servant(s), , who hath been taken from us, in the mansions of the Righteous: give him (her, them) rest in Abraham’s Bosom, and number him (her, them) among the Just; and have mercy on us, forasmuch as He is good and loveth mankind.
People Amen.
Who Rose from the Dead

The Church will not speak of death without first naming the Resurrection. The departed are commemorated by name, and the prayer asks that their souls be established in the mansions of the righteous.

XVI

Memory Eternal

Asking God, not us, to remember

The choir sings Memory Eternal three times, slowly, while the priest censes. The petition is not that we remember, though we will. It asks that God remember, for in Scripture it is God's remembering that keeps a man alive. It is the counterpart of the Many Years sung for the living.

All join in singing Memory Eternal three times, while the priest censes.
Priest Grant rest eternal in blessed repose, O Lord, to Thy servant(s), , who is (are) fallen asleep, and make his (her, their) memory to be eternal!
People Memory eternal! Memory eternal! Memory eternal!
Priest May God beatify and give him (her, them) rest, and be merciful unto us, forasmuch as He is good and loveth mankind.
People Amen.
After the final blessing, all sing. The service is ended.
A Novelist's Last Word

Dostoevsky ends The Brothers Karamazov inside this prayer: at the memorial meal for the boy Ilyusha, Alyosha and the boys take up the cry, Memory Eternal.

The Rhythm of Memorials

When the Panikhida Is Served

The third, the ninth, and the fortieth day

Memorials are offered on the third day after death, for the Lord rose on the third day; on the ninth, that the soul may be joined to the nine ranks of angels; and on the fortieth, recalling the forty days of mourning for Moses and the forty days from Pascha to the Ascension. After that, the Church remembers the departed each year on the anniversary of their falling asleep.

On the Great and Holy Sabbath, Christ rested in the tomb, and so Saturday became the Church's weekly day of prayer for all who rest in Him. Several Saturdays each year are kept as Soul Saturdays, when the whole parish serves this memorial for all its departed together. A Panikhida may also be requested at any time: speak with Fr. Solomon to arrange one, and give the names of your departed to the priest before the service begins, written if possible.

Signs of the Resurrection

Kolyva: The Blessed Wheat

The Lord's own image of the Resurrection

A dish of kolyva, boiled wheat sweetened with honey, is often set out at a Panikhida with a candle burning in it. The wheat is the Lord's own image of the Resurrection: unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone, but if it dies, it bears much fruit. The candle burning in the wheat speaks the same hope, the light of Christ, which the darkness has not overcome.

You may bring kolyva to a memorial for your own departed; it is blessed during the service and shared afterward in their memory. The custom has its own feast day: in the year 362, the story is told, the emperor Julian the Apostate ordered the food of the markets defiled with idol offerings in the first week of Great Lent, and the martyr Theodore the Recruit appeared in a vision to the city's archbishop and told the Christians to eat only boiled wheat. The Church still blesses kolyva on the first Saturday of Great Lent, and beside her departed.

Requesting a Memorial

Pray for Your Departed

Panikhidas are served on Soul Saturdays, on anniversaries, and by request. Give the names of your departed to Fr. Solomon before the service begins, written if possible. You may also bring kolyva to be blessed.

The Anastasis fresco at Chora: Christ raising the dead

"With the saints give rest, O Christ, where sickness and sorrow are no more, neither sighing, but life everlasting."

The Kontakion of the Departed Sung at every Orthodox funeral and memorial

Pray for
Your Departed

Panikhidas are served on Soul Saturdays, on anniversaries, and by request.
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The choir sings · the melody is the top line of the upper staff

From the choir books of Saints Peter & Paul Orthodox Cathedral

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